The Best Way To Deal With A Broken Heart Is To Just STOP CARING
2014.04.25
Hey there, lonely heartbroken person. We're here to tell you how much we really care about how you're doing, and why you should totally stop caring about that other person who smashed your heart into smithereens.
First of all, you're not alone. All of us get dumped. It's inevitable and will happen to everyone at least once.
Sometimes you break it off. Sometimes its mutual.
And sometimes you get dumped... its just a part of life.
While it's completely natural to want call the other person, to try and force yourself back into their life...
That's really the biggest mistake that you can make.
Here's what we recommend you try: STOP CARING
STOP CARING about what they're up to.
STOP CARING about who they're with.
STOP CARING about whether they're thinking of you.
Stop spending all your time and effort caring about the other person; start using all that energy to care about yourself.
Don't get us wrong, you totally have the right to feel angry/sad/disappointed. Don't bottle that shit up!
It will take time to pick up what was left of your broken heart and smashed ego.
It will feel weird to accept that the other person you once considered as your whole world is nothing but a stranger now.
Eventually, you will get to a place where you won't even remember why you cared about them in the first place. What you will remember is that you had a life BEFORE you met this person. And that you still have a life, even if they're no longer part of it.
So STOP CARING already... because the rest of your life is waiting for you!
First of all, you're not alone. All of us get dumped. It's inevitable and will happen to everyone at least once.
Sometimes you break it off. Sometimes its mutual.
And sometimes you get dumped... its just a part of life.
While it's completely natural to want call the other person, to try and force yourself back into their life...
That's really the biggest mistake that you can make.
Here's what we recommend you try: STOP CARING
STOP CARING about what they're up to.
STOP CARING about who they're with.
STOP CARING about whether they're thinking of you.
Stop spending all your time and effort caring about the other person; start using all that energy to care about yourself.
Don't get us wrong, you totally have the right to feel angry/sad/disappointed. Don't bottle that shit up!
It will take time to pick up what was left of your broken heart and smashed ego.
It will feel weird to accept that the other person you once considered as your whole world is nothing but a stranger now.
Eventually, you will get to a place where you won't even remember why you cared about them in the first place. What you will remember is that you had a life BEFORE you met this person. And that you still have a life, even if they're no longer part of it.
So STOP CARING already... because the rest of your life is waiting for you!
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