Have you ever considered what it would be like to date someone who wasn't even born when you were already attending high school? Or even college?

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Sure the whole "older man/younger woman" might seem like a creepy cliche, but there are plenty of stories from guys who have gone down that route and found the partner of their dreams.

As long as you're both adults and not breaking any rules, here's an outline of the pros and cons of dating a younger woman.

PROS
They are more carefree

One of the most attractive things about younger women is that they live a life largely free of responsibility. They're also less likely to have a list of what they want in a partner, a career or even life which is perfect for alpha males who are really want a relationship to be on their terms.

They are more spontaneous

Younger women will probably be more keen to experience new places; older women would prefer following a plan that's well-executed.

They are more fun

Chances are high that younger women aren't really looking to settle down so early. Instead of pressuring you to get hitched, they'll more likely to just let the relationship take its natural course.

They make you feel youthful

Youth and vitality may wane as you get older, but having a younger woman by your side really does have a way of making you feel that you've still got it going on.

There are more of them around

Thanks to the law of averages, there will always be proportionately fewer women your age who are still single.

CONS
Less things in common

Having a wide generation gap means that the two of you will probably have very different habits (texting) and different tastes (movies, books). This can make it challenging to build a real relationship.

They're immature

Fewer years of dating doesn't always equal to less baggage. Older women who experience heartbreak during their wild youth are more familiar with how to deal obstacles in relationships, while younger women are too focused in getting their way all the time.

Neediness

As mentioned previously, younger women are likely to have issues that older women have outgrown. This inexperience can make them seem more needy and insecure.

You're more of a father figure/sugar daddy

There's a reason why this cliche exists. Younger women are often attracted to the security that older men can provide them. Even if you don't mind splurging for a hot piece of ass, it's only a matter of time until her insincerity and her materialism will start to turn you off.

It gets tiring

Plenty of older men date younger women in an attempt to recapture their long lost youth, but this rarely ever works in the long run. All that club hopping and binge drinking will eventually take its toll. Once you’re lust for adventure fades, so will your relationship.

She’s your last, but you’re her first

After a certain age, most men would have acquired enough relationship experience to know what they're looking for in a partner, how to resolve disagreements, when to stand your ground and when to compromise. So you'll have to be very patient if you plan on getting together with someone with barely any relationship experience.

She will change
Even if you do become exclusive, there's no guarantee that she will still be the same outgoing, carefree person once she gets older.

Of course, not all older man-younger woman relationships are disasters waiting to happen. So if you do happen to find that special young lady and want it to last, just make sure it's a decision you're making with both your heart and your brain (and not just your dick).