5 Fears of People Who Have Commitment Issues
2014.09.04
Relationships are tricky. Sometimes you're lucky enough to meet people who aren't afraid of going all-in. Sometimes, not so much. The people who have commitment issues often have common fears. Here they are:
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They don't want you to put a label on the whole 'good-friends' thing.
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Are you 'the one'? Or not? How to tell?
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It really means they don't want you to be in their lives for longer periods of time. Move on quickly.
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A relationship takes a lot of work. From taking care of someone's feelings, pampering them, to loving them in a non-sexual manner. A person who has a fear of commitment will be afraid to take it to the next level.
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Maybe, somewhere and sometime in the past, they've been hurt, and now they are afraid. Either that, they are still wallowing in a self-pity party and don't want it to stop. And maybe, just maybe, they're using this excuse to keep things casual and non-commital.
1. They worry when things get serious
![fear1.gif fear1.gif](/files/attach/images/591/259/772/014/fear1.gif)
They don't want you to put a label on the whole 'good-friends' thing.
2. They worry they are making the wrong choice
![fear2.gif fear2.gif](/files/attach/images/591/259/772/014/fear2.gif)
Are you 'the one'? Or not? How to tell?
3. They fear making plans for the future means they'll be stuck to just one person
![fear3.gif fear3.gif](/files/attach/images/591/259/772/014/fear3.gif)
It really means they don't want you to be in their lives for longer periods of time. Move on quickly.
4. They fear the responsibility of a relationship
![fear4.gif fear4.gif](/files/attach/images/591/259/772/014/fear4.gif)
A relationship takes a lot of work. From taking care of someone's feelings, pampering them, to loving them in a non-sexual manner. A person who has a fear of commitment will be afraid to take it to the next level.
5. They fear they'll get let down
![fear5.gif fear5.gif](/files/attach/images/591/259/772/014/fear5.gif)
Maybe, somewhere and sometime in the past, they've been hurt, and now they are afraid. Either that, they are still wallowing in a self-pity party and don't want it to stop. And maybe, just maybe, they're using this excuse to keep things casual and non-commital.
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