Your words have a profound effect on your children. It doesn't matter if they're boys or girls, it affects them in the way you never imagined. "Whether it's homicidal violence or suicidal violence, people resort to such desperate behavior only when they are feeling shamed or humiliated."

Respect should not be linked to violence. The film entitled "The Mask You Live In," comes out later this year. But for now check out this hyper masculine narrative.